things i’ve learned from the internet: when to stop.
i.e. if you’re in a relationship don’t spew your feelings all over the internet in the heat of the moment because firstly, it is immature; secondly, it is THE INTERNET AND ANYTHING YOU POST CAN AND MAY BE USED AGAINST YOU; thirdly, it makes you look bitter and crazy and i guarantee no one wants to be with a crazy person who spews their feelings all over all of their social networks (or even just one..)
i could probably go on about this for a while. but i guess the moral of the story is to please keep the intimate details of your relationship/s just as they are. INTIMATE DETAILS. aka no one should know them but you and the person you are intimate with.
aka, why do you have so many feelings… and why are they ALL over the internet?
@1 year ago with 4 notes
#also this isn't relevant to my life just an observation i'm making based off of reading some crazy lady's rants all over my fb and tumblr... #rant #relationship advice #advice #relationship #love #intimacy #crazy bitches
Anonymous asked: It seems you are so young but are lucky enough to be in a faithful relationship. What do you think are the keys to obtaining that and keeping it? I guess it helps that you're beautiful. It just a hard out there for the single gal.
I do feel extremely lucky to be in such a happy, healthy relationship. Especially at such a young age. I think the keys to it are honesty, trust, laughter, consideration and love. And lots of great bedroom/livingroom/wherever time.
We go out of our ways to do random nice things for each other. I think the give and take of our relationship is very equal, so no one feels taken advantage of. Being able to talk about problems without getting catty or going silent is also a big factor. Being understanding and thinking outside of your own personal wants and needs.. being able to understand that maybe your partner has had a bad day and just needs to play video games all night when maybe you want to go out dancing or something, those kinds of things are important. I still delight in him, and look forward to seeing him every time I can.
I think it depends for every person’s relationship what things are important and what are not. But I think bringing out the best in the person you are with, and if they bring out the best in you, those are the things that really matter in a good relationship.
And thank you, I never was a confident person until fairly recently. I never thought of myself as beautiful… one of my friends once told me, “you’re not beautiful, but you have an amazing sex appeal” (I don’t know if he realized at the time how awfully hurtful that was to hear that) and it totally crushed me. But I’m sure you are gorgeous, whoever you are, inside and out. Beauty is objective. And there is someone (or several someones) out there for whom you will be the most beautiful creature they have ever laid eyes on.
Also, the best relationships happen when you aren’t looking for a relationship. So thrive in being single, savor every moment of it, and have fun! You’ll find the perfect someone when you least expect it.
@1 year ago with 3 notes
#relationship advice #love